I've been chatting to BK quite a bit these days. He broke up with his gal and he's heartbroken about it although he's handling it well. We don't usually chat much about he and his gal but more on general stuff..what's going on..teasing each other..just casual chat. But sometimes the topic would go to his relationship with his gal and how he's trying not to think about it. I listen and soothe him with encouraging words. Am I affected? Well, at least I'm not longer crying over it and losing my mind but it still hurts. It hurts because he's telling me how much he's affected by his break up and yet, when we broke up, it was nothing to him..at least that's the impression I got. So should I listen and bare with the hurt or should I just ask him to shut up? Where do I draw the line? As a friend, I don't want to see him get hurt and I don't mind being there for him..but hurting myself? Is that worthit? I guess I kinda know the answer to all this question in my heart but I just had to let it out. I hope he'll have an easier time letting go of her..surprisingly, not because he would be available again but because I don't want to see him get hurt.
Thankfully the experiment worked today. At least I have something to rejoice about instead of being miserable over my uncontrolled feelings.
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I'm afraid to be alone ;(
Now I think this Chalmers thingy is a bad idea...
I guess when he broke up with u he probably talked to another person about it instead of to u. Guys have ego and will not want to show exes that we are weak..
Btw thanks for dropping on my blog. I used to go to Minnesota, now back at KL, Malaysia. :D
Yup.. Guys = ego :)
Unfortunately, that is true. But I'm glad I've met guys who are not too. :P
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